Usually, my husband and I do our grocery shopping together. It may sound like a waste of time, but it works for us. He keeps me honest and somewhat frugal, and I remember to buy things I've forgotten to add to the grocery list, like sweet potatoes and juice boxes. On Sunday, Jamie went shopping alone; we had returned from a weekend away, and Duncan was exhausted, strung out, and asked to stay home. Sometimes, it's eye opening to see what he brings home when I am not around to influence his purchases. This week's revealing item was cage free eggs; those cage free eggs spelled love.
If you're landing here for the first time, you need to know that I have spent the last several years slowly, steadily, determinedly encouraging my family to reduce their impact on the environment. We joined a CSA, stopped using paper towels and napkins, and committed to packing waste-free lunches. I stealthily joined the Meatless Monday movement and stretched my flexitarian lifestyle to include meatless Tuesday. I made it a practice to bake my own bread for our weekly grilled cheese night and started making soup instead of buying it in cans. We took a hard look at our recycling practices and endeavored to be the best recyclers we could be; we started composting. We've made a lot of changes, and we know now that we have a lot to go, but we work at it every day.
Working on our food choices has been a long adventure. Ultimately, I'm trying to feed my family more local food, less processed food, and less but more humane meat. It is not a perfect world, but we try. I have been buying most of our meat from the farmers' market or from a local, organic farm; when I can, I buy eggs from the farmers' market or I buy the most local options available in the grocery store. This weekend, Jamie returned with two dozen cage free eggs. I know they cost more; I'm sure he doesn't understand why I care about the chickens, and I'm not going to launch into a diatribe about the lives of the typical, "factory" laying chicen. But the truth is, I DO care about the chickens. Jamie could have bought any eggs. We had a rough week; I wasn't going to complain about his egg choices. He may have to live with my choices, particularly in what we bring home from the grocery store, but I don't believe it's my business to criticize his. Nevertheless, there they are. Cage free eggs. He had heard my concern for the lives of the chickens, the healthfulness of the eggs, and the carbon footprint of our food.
To you, they may just be eggs. Cage free eggs in biodegradable cartons. To me, they're love.